Man Without Self-Confidence
by VM Arumugham
The Man Without Self-Confidence – Puppet Struggle
Self-confidence is the foundation of success. It is the power that enables a person to rise above challenges and move forward with determination. A man without confidence, however, is like a puppet — lifeless without control, moved and directed by others.
A person lacking confidence depends on others for every decision. He cannot stand firm on his own. His actions, thoughts, and emotions are influenced by others around him. Such a man cannot act freely; his life becomes a puppet struggle — a constant battle within himself, filled with fear, hesitation, and doubt.
The Helplessness of the Confidence-Less Man
A person without confidence often hesitates even to begin something new. He is controlled by fear — the fear of failure, criticism, or rejection. This fear ties him down and prevents him from making progress.
Even when opportunities appear before him, he cannot take advantage of them. Though he may be intelligent or capable, his lack of confidence prevents him from using his abilities effectively. His thoughts remain restless, and his life becomes a cycle of indecision and regret.
The Power of Self-Confidence
Confidence gives strength to the mind and clarity to thought. It brings courage to act and patience to persevere. A confident person believes in his own potential and dares to act even in the face of difficulty.
A man with confidence is not swayed by others’ opinions. He walks his own path with determination. Failures do not discourage him — instead, they strengthen his will. He is the master of his own actions and the creator of his own destiny.
Building Self-Confidence
Self-confidence does not appear overnight; it must be developed through right thinking and consistent effort. Each small act of courage builds confidence. Every experience — success or failure — adds to one’s inner strength.
To cultivate confidence:
Trust yourself. You are capable of more than you think.
Face challenges boldly. Avoid running from problems.
Learn from experience. Every mistake is a lesson.
Think positively. Eliminate fear and self-doubt.
Stay disciplined and persistent. Regular effort builds strong character.
Conclusion
A man without confidence is like a puppet — his life controlled by others, his movements directed by fear, and his actions guided by hesitation.
But a man with confidence lives with freedom, dignity, and purpose. He faces life’s storms boldly and shapes his own destiny.
Let us, therefore, awaken the confidence within us. Let us cut the strings of fear and dependency and stand tall with courage and self-belief.
When confidence leads the way, the puppet becomes a leader — and the struggle becomes a story of success.
Written by:
V.M. Arumugam